blue pleated maxi dress The "Rainbow" (Blue) padded cups Clouds Of Love Strapless Pleated

Its fitted long sleeves create a sleek and elegant profile

Backless design

Ann Taylor Ann Taylor Petite Floral A-Line Skirt Linen Dream Blue Women's Current price: $74.50 Original price: $149.00 From Ann Taylor Loading Inventory

On my 5 ft 2 frame, they sit high on the waist and flow into legs that are just wide enough (you can easily hide a heel beneath the hems, but you won't trip over on the stairs)

This is a great way to get that trendy mismatched look while keeping things simple

However, if you dont want to shock your family too much, there are plenty of fit and flare wedding dresses from Martin Thornburg that are more subtle (but still sexy)